Emotional Regulation and Wellbeing
De-Escalation and Restorative Responses
Stay calm, lower the heat, then repair and welcome the student back.
Resources
9 resources for this topic, drawn from 8 organizations. Everything opens free, and the ones from other organizations open on their own sites.
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Strategies for De-escalating Student Behavior in the Classroom
Match your response to each stage of escalation with this practice brief. Focuses on staying safe and instructive.
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How to De-escalate Student Behavior
Listen to PBIS coaches walk through the de-escalation brief with classroom examples. Transcript included.
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Escalation Cycle
Use the seven phases, calm to recovery, to decide what to do and what to hold for later.
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Addressing Challenging Behaviors (Part 2, Secondary)
Work through behavior strategies for secondary classrooms that prevent and respond to challenging behavior.
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Restorative Questions Card
Print a card of questions to ask after a conflict, for the student and for those affected. Also in Spanish.
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Engaging in Restorative Conversations with Students
Plan a one-to-one restorative chat in three phases, with sample wording and a worked example.
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Promoting School Connectedness Through Restorative Practices
See five restorative practices in plain terms, from everyday affective language to re-entry circles.
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Episode 4: Regulating Yourself and Your Classroom
Dr. Bruce Perry explains how a teacher's calm spreads to students and shares strategies that keep adults and students regulated. Captions available.
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An Alternative to In-School Suspension
A Nashville high school uses counselor-led restorative circles so students reflect on impact, repair harm, and return to class. Transcript included.
These resources are shared for professional learning and planning. They are meant to inform your professional judgment, not replace it. Each student's IEP and your district, state and federal requirements always come first. Listing a resource here is not an endorsement by Layered Education. This is educational information only, not legal advice.
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